Monday, March 26, 2018

March 12, 2018

It was a bit of a hard week. There was a ridiculous amount of rain and thunder and lightening, metaphorical as well as literal. I've become the official calm person in the house. Everyone else jumps and screams, but at this point my companion lands back on the ground (she really does get air sometimes) and turns to me and says "let me guess, it wasn't anywhere close to us?" and I'm like "yup, exactly!" and we keep going.
I wasn't feeling super awesome this weekend, but don't worry I'm totally ok now. Just kept counting down the hours to pday. And I got letters! A whole massive envelope from home!!! Seriously made my day :)
We took some considerable time out of our week this week to focus on practice and training. Sister Rodrigues is progressing quite a bit, but we're totally behind schedule on the 12-week program. She just needs a different pace, and its really hard to find time for that. Also, she's still struggling with the physical demands of the work, swollen feet, and all that. Please keep praying for her!!
This week was pretty sad (and I don't mean pathetic, I mean like there were a lot of sad, unfortunate things that happened) as far as our investigators are concerned. 
We had some great visits with Carol and Yasmin this week, and of course we were thrilled that Rosa and Yasmin came to church, but Carol has gotten harder and harder to find, and Rosa told us yesterday that she likes a different church better, and doesn't want to continue being taught. All we can really do is write awesome things about them in the area book and hope that some other sisters go looking for them!
This is the part that needs a warning label: We had a really awesome lesson on Sunday with Ivan and Enilda about keeping commitments (they didn't go to church, again) and how it will bless their lives. We didn't get to visit them on Monday, and then on Tuesday we got there pretty late, and Enilda was already sleeping, because she hadn't been feeling well, and finally gave up waiting for us (felt really super awful about that) and went to bed, but we read the Book of Mormon with Ivan, and had a good discussion. Wednesday, we call Enilda's phone to see if we can visit, only to find out that she was in the hospital alone, because Ivan was leaving for a doctors appointment Luckily, the hospital is super close (and in our area), and we managed to get the workers to let us in to sit with her, and make sure she got everything she needed. It was probably the saddest afternoon of my life, watching her struggle to stay awake and to communicate, and then to realize from her mixed up explanation that she was there because she tried to commit suicide. She already struggles with depression, and doesn't treat her diabetes well either, and with all the stress of Ivan going back to drugs, she decided to didn't need to live anymore. I can't describe to you all the pain we were both feeling that night, the helplessness. We visited the next day, and she participated in the lesson for a little while and then fall asleep (oh, but we had an awesome conversation with Ivan. Her attempted suicide really woke him up, and helped him on the path to repentance. He really really does want to change his life!), but then when we got there on Friday, neighbors were taking her to the hospital, again, because of yet another failed suicide attempt. We haven't managed to contact either of them since then, since Enilda is being kept somewhere (I forgot the English word, sorry), and Ivan doesn't have a phone. We know they both need the gospel in their lives now, more than ever, so we're not giving up, but please please please everyone keep praying for them!
Ok, but happy things! We had 3 people come to church yesterday, and we didn't even invite them! Our ward is super energetic, but often lacking in followup, so it was super duper awesome to have them bring friends and family! We also got a couple of references during ward council last night, so we're super excited to start working with all of them!
Also, we continue to eat well, as usual. This week we found yet another awesome but cheap bakery, and I also made cookies (my companion might need addiction recovery help) and milk shakes! Oh, plus the members are awesome and they never forget to feed us. That's super awesome too ;)
Wish I had happier news, sorry! And lots more time. Love you all! Have a great week!!

And sorry I didn't have time to write to Jessica! Tell her I'm so proud of her, and so happy I got to know her, just the little bit that I did!
-Sister Kirkham

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